I also disagree with your article, because half the time most of the games don't have scant clad lead females in the role but sometimes do have.. Questionable clothings (IE: Valkyria Chronicles..But then again..Alicia could destroy an entire continent..)

At the same time, the games that do have are meant to be something to relax your eyes on.  Its also a perspective of what violence is best combined with.. Sex, hence "Eye Candy". The games you have listed that have  no "character" built in is exactly how the designers expect it to be.

Of course, the counter side would be of what the female gamers get.

My question is, is it really okay to split the gaming community in half and have different games appealing to different genders like bathroom stalls soon?

I mean, if the girls want seductive men and turn playboy into playgirl. What would happen to us male gamers who dont want to be staring at some guys butt?

As long as the gaming community is mostly held by males, there will always be a way to satisfy both sides of the pipeline: Murder, Death Sex.